#LifeCoaching Experience: A simple secrets of a happy life!

This is an amazing experience of #LifeCoaching so I felt I must share it as it relates with most of the family life. I was counseling an elderly couple in the month Dec’13! In their family, they have two sons! The elder son grown up with feelings that his parents don't care for him, and have been giving more attention to younger one who is in school! After listening & understanding this simple but critical family challenge. First, I advised to organize a family outing (at an exciting place) since they did not go for any outing for almost 3 years to create a bonding within family, and especially between brothers. Second, I advised parents to go along with their sons to gift to people in need on streets and orphanage. Third, I advised to do an activity in which the parents has to continuously share for next 3 days (at suitable time) about how they all enjoyed together in recent outing and in past days, and also to share how beautiful it was to see them spending time in helping people in need. And, at last the parents has to do a unique activity to remove the wrong belief from their elder son mind that he is not being cared. The last activity (Medicine - Feeding a New Thought) could have performed (given) after the acceptance of thoughts within family. The parents has to play an activity in which they had to ask to their elder son to create tree drawing and know from him how a tree grows. The son had to make tree and speak how it becomes bigger from a small seed. Its natural, the son would tell it has to put in fertile soil, should be protected and must be given water to become bigger to offspring one day. Once the son explains the known fact, the father had to share; Son, I am not your dad but a farmer! I see you both as my beautiful offspring whom I cared since the time you were very small and sweet like you always are! When you were very small, I kept my eyes open all the night to see you are sleeping well! When you were awake, I kept my eyes open to see you never fall. When I took you to the school, I made my shoulders strong to let you see the world with your eyes and ensured your safety with courage. When you had completed your schooling, you had learnt your lessons to take decisions. It was my time to stay quiet to let you speak & make decisions. When you reached in college, instead like others, I gave freedom to see you become a decision maker of your own life. I see you are ready to offspring the knowledge & habits cultivated in you, like the tree offspring fruits to serve the world when it grows bigger. Tree who decides to let its fruit taken away by needy or let them fall from the branches to rise again as new trees around. Your knowledge is extraordinary which I didn't say because I felt you will gain pride! I never over protected to see you losing your natural growth. I believe you go out and implement your ideas, become a decision maker to grow stronger and share your fruits (knowledge) to the one who need like you gift to the needy people on the streets and let your knowledge spread & grow like ripen fruit falls on the ground to shape-up as new tree again!